Meeting Thursday May 12th

Phillip Khan-Panni

REAL VALUE AT SOCIETY

It was an unusual meeting — a 40 minute panel discussion followed by a 15 minute speech including interruptions. Every bit as good as anything you might get at an Advanced Toastmasters club. Club President Evelyn Khan-Panni lingered just long enough to ensure that all with roles on the agenda were present, before handing over to the Toastmaster, John Burns, who briskly announced the running order.

First out of the blocks was Phillip Khan-Panni, with his final project in the Presentation Mastery Path. He was to lead a 40-minute panel discussion on the theme, “Why do you make a speech?” His hand-picked panellists were Division J Governor, Alan Tracey DTM, newcomer Tiarnan O’Dwyer (online communications expert) and Club President, Evelyn Khan-Panni DTM.

Unsurprisingly, there was some overlap in the ideas of all three and the consensus was:
• Aim to make change in thinking, attitude or behaviour
• Lead people to want the change
• Leave them feeling good
• Keep your own ego out of the way

Dermot Carey heroically packed his evaluation of this extended project into three minutes!

Next up was Emer O’Neill with Managing a Difficult Audience from the Presentation Mastery Path. Her theme was “Something to say”, during which she had to cope with numerous interruptions. She very effectively embraced the hecklers and fitted them in to the points she was making, as remarked her speech evaluator, Fiona Joyce.

Evan Ryan took over as Table Topics Master and set a rapid pace. High energy was the hallmark of the day. Aileen Tighe revealed that her hidden talent was singing (inside her own head); James Watters spoke of a childhood wish to have the freedom of grown-ups; Maree Farrell had to choose between a huge lottery win kept quiet, or a more modest one that she could talk about; Alan Tracey said nostalgia isn’t what it used to be; Dermot Carey declared a passion for the Golden Arches, even on holiday; and Evelyn Khan-Panni told the harrowing tale of being mugged on holiday in Nice.

Double-jobbing as Grammarian, Alan Tracey referenced a family gathering in which his American brother-in-law was silenced by the eloquence of everyone else. A parallel, he said, with the quality of the contributions at this meeting.

The masterful General Evaluation was conducted by visiting Massimo Guadagnino who was struck by the buzz and welcome he senses on arrival at Society Toastmasters. He was made comfortable, learned something useful and had lots of fun. In closing he recommended a mug labelled, “You’re on mute”.

Visiting Area Director, Aileen Tighe, said she was impressed by the panel discussion, which she had never seen before at a Toastmasters meeting. She found it very instructive.

Finally, Club President Evelyn complimented Toastmaster John Burns on leading such a fantastic meeting, and thanked the visiting Toastmasters, including Aileen Tighe, Maree Farrell, Dermot Carey, Mary Burnham, James Watters and Massimo Guadagnino. She said plans were afoot to return to in-person meetings, and called for volunteers to fill the next year’s committee.

The next meeting of Society Toastmasters will be on Thursday 26th May at 7:15 p.m. On Zoom.

Meeting Thursday April 28th

Phillip Khan-Panni

April 28 is a notable day, marking the anniversaries of the notorious Mutiny on The Bounty and the escape from prison of the gunfighter, Billy the Kid. In Dublin, Society Toastmasters showed character to counter the techno glitches that threatened to disrupt their latest meeting.

With a sang froid that matched the historic anniversaries, Club President Evelyn Khan-Panni shouldered her way through the faulty link that was keeping her out and opened the meeting with a call for volunteers to join the new committee. Describing the all-important role of Sergeant-at-Arms, (who keeps order in meetings), she singled out Sean Browne as the exemplar in that role.

Accepting the virtual gavel as the meeting’s Toastmaster, Vincent MacNally briskly outlined the agenda and welcomed the guests, Tiarnan and Lenin. As well-prepared as ever, Vincent shared some interesting background on each of the officials – Evelyn as Timer and Sean as Grammarian.

When the scheduled first speaker struggled with her internet connection, John Burns opened the batting with a very personal speech, revealingly titled, “Becoming the new John.” It was a frank account of his move from cloud computing consultant to host and now National Director of The Gyft Show. The outcome has been exponential improvement in his self-assurance.

His Speech Evaluator, Alan Tracey, complimented his transition from “diffident” to “different” and urged him to speak from bullet points rather than a script.

Next up was Fiona Joyce with her speech, “Can you hear me?” It was another personal speech, describing her struggle with a too-quiet voice – a battle she is clearly winning. Sadly, her poor internet connection interfered with her demonstration of breathing from the diaphragm.

Her Speech Evaluator, Michael Dolan, commended her improved vocal variety and urged her to repeat the speech, with its body language, at an in-person meeting.

The Table Topics were presented by Phillip Khan-Panni who, as required by the Active Listening Pathways project, evaluated each speaker in turn.

Michael Dolan said he had never actually met Elvis, but told a parallel tale about Muhammad Ali. Pat Caslin revealed his response to the shock of a MS diagnosis. Alan Tracey spoke of unexpectedly encountering a hero of his, but declined to reveal his identity. Sean Browne said the decision he most regretted was to have a curry that attacked all his senses.

Asked about the most sensible thing he had heard anyone say, first-timer Tiarnan revealed that his wife knew best about undercoats when painting the house. Lenin, another first-timer, said that certain kinds of music and its riffs always made him smile. Vincent MacNally took the final topic and disclosed that he would be aged 21 if he didn’t know how old he actually was.

The General Evaluator was Pat Caslin, visiting Club President from Dun Laoghaire, who acknowledged the techno glitches that had interrupted but not marred the meeting. He thought all tasks were carried out to a very high standard and complimented the Table Topics Master for his feedback. “Take what you hear and find meaning” he quoted from the manual. “This club (Society),” he added, “has character.”

Meeting Thursday April 14th

Phillip Khan-Panni

MAUNDY THURSDAY AT SOCIETY

Easter week and our ranks were thin, with members organising their egg hunts and preparing for a surfeit of chocolate. In England the Queen was dishing out the Maundy money, but in Dublin the queen of Society Toastmasters, Evelyn Khan-Panni, was presiding over one of the season’s more enjoyable meetings.

Toastmaster of the day was Phillip Khan-Panni, who foresaw the day when Zoom suits were out. He got proceedings under way with a warm up that broke the ice and revealed each person’s preferred means of transport.

Timer was Michael Dolan, Grammarian was Emer O’Neill and the General Evaluator was the visiting Jim Watters, a long-standing Toastmaster who once took a break that lasted only three months before he was back.

The first speech was delivered by John Burns (currently VPE) whose speech, The GYFT Show, was about his own life-changing event, following two years of self-development. And what progress he has made since he became a professional speaker!

With a typically incisive evaluation, Alan Tracey described him as an under-rated speaker who could (and should) reveal more about the GYFT project and his own role in its development.

The second speech, by Vincent MacNally was an intriguing account of his time as the protégé of someone whose initials were GOD. What he learned, he declared, was that we should all become better listeners and more “agile”.

His speech evaluator was Club President, Evelyn Khan-Panni, who praised his gravitas and the value of the business advice in his speech.

Double-jobbing Michael Dolan ran a lively Table Topics session. Both Evelyn and Emer O’Neill spoke about the significance of Easter, Alan Tracey chose Tina Turner’s song, Simply the Best, as his preferred theme, and Jim Watters came down in favour of the new legislation on the sale of turf. Emer liked the revival of Derry Girls and Phillip thought he’d be a Boxer if he had to become a dog.

Vincent picked Jack Reacher as Most Under-rated Film and both John Burns and Jim Watters offered their choices of songs to hear in Hell, including Meatloaf’s Bat Out of Hell and Heaven Can Wait.

Emer’s Grammarian Report included some detailed comments on the speeches, and Jim Watters gave a perceptive and encouraging General Evaluation. In particular he liked the Warm Up, the Timer’s recommendation that Topics should last more than one minute, and the fact that Table Topics were allotted a full 20 minutes. In conclusion, he hoped we would soon be meeting in person again, saying that being a Toastmaster was all about the Club, and what we do at that level.

Meeting Thursday March 24th

Phillip Khan-Panni

APPROACHING SUMMER TIME

Society’s final meeting before the clocks go forward was most enjoyable and, in the words of the General Evaluator, “of a consistently high standard.”

Club President, Evelyn Khan-Panni, opened with a reminder that were in Contest season, and that Society Toastmasters would be hosting the Area 2 Contests (International Speech and Evaluation) next Thursday, 31st March. Phillip Khan-Panni and Evan Ryan will represent the club in both contests.

Fiona Joyce took over as Toastmaster of the Day, in only her second time in the role. Very much in charge of her brief, she had two veterans in support, with Michael Dolan as Timer and Vincent MacNally as Grammarian. His word of the day, “convivial”, was well applied during the meeting and, in his report at the end, he remarked on how easy it was to be Grammarian in this club because of the high standard of language used by its members.

Speaker No.1 was Emer O’Neill who, we learned, grew up in Galway but had travelled widely in places such as Germany and Luxembourg. Her speech, “Laughter is the best medicine”, included some childhood revelations including being smacked by a teacher for laughing to cope with a serious moment.

Her speech evaluator, Patricia O’Reilly, confessed to laughing out loud, even when alone, and commiserated with Emer over her experiences with educators who didn’t get it.

Speaker No.2 was Sean Browne, who addressed the question of “Coach, Mentor or Both”, and lamented the difficulty in finding a good mentor. His own best mentor was his elder brother, Shay, whose guidance enabled him to become Ireland’s first gold medal winner in swimming at Coventry.

His speech evaluator, John Burns, complimented his story-telling skill and especially his ability to evoke a visceral feeling in his listeners.

Launching a convivial Table Topics session, Phillip Khan-Panni offered a succession of aphorisms for comment.

Michael Dolan agreed we should “measure twice, cut once” and remarked that it was worth re-visiting any matter several times before making a final decision.
Alan Tracey commented that “he who hesitates is lost”, especially when cycling on a narrow path, as he had to when a callow youth.
Evelyn Khan-Panni considered “the difference between stumbling blocks and stepping stones”, especially when they formed the means of crossing a stream or river.
Fiona Joyce continued the river crossing theme, agreeing that “the one who knows the water best is the one who has waded in it.”
Vincent MacNally thought that although “tiny raindrops never dry when they mix with the sea”, yet they have little chance of changing the nature of the sea.
Patricia O’Reilly tackled the age-old question of whether genius is inspiration or perspiration and considered whether a genius like Mozart is born or made. The jury is still out, she said.

Alan Tracey was the General Evaluator, and was full of praise for all who took part, in particular for the preparation undertaken by all who took on a role. His compliments included such terms as elegant, proficient, sets the bar high, and well prepared. Looking ahead, he urged every member to bring one other person to the next meeting.

Concluding the meeting, Evelyn Khan-Panni thanked the General Evaluator for helping to maintain high standards.